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I've shared these thoughts elsewhere:

People can easily become like those they choose to surround themselves by. Regular self-reflection and openly conversing with complete strangers on airplanes (in coach!), etc can be a good thing.

Hold people who committed crimes accountable. - https://leemuller.substack.com/p/poll-who-is-the-most-guilty

As for those in your inner circle, I offer the following: 'Forgive' and 'forget' and truly two different words for a reason. I highly recommend the book, "Caring Enough to Forgive, Caring Enough Not to Forgive" by David W. Augsburger which discusses true forgiveness vs. false forgiveness. Simply amazing book for those who have been betrayed. And from the Bible, Matthew Chapter 18: 15 `If your brother does something wrong to you, go to him. Talk alone to him and tell him what he has done. If he listens to you, you have kept your brother as a friend. 16 But if he does not listen to you, take one or two others with you to talk to him. Then two or three people will hear every word and can prove what was said. 17 If he does not listen to them, tell the church. If he does not listen to the church, treat him as one who does not believe in God and as bad as a tax collector.'

More thoughts on true, good apologies from family and friends here: https://leemuller.substack.com/p/those-two-little-words

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Dr Linda's avatar

“Essentially, many people who may have argued that things have gone too far may not have been arguing that at the beginning.”

This comment caught my eye. Frankly I’m conflicted. At what point does one say something has gone to far? I was against the entire situation from day 1. I was arguing it had gone too far from the start. I am not an exceptional human being, just a regular person. I am not sure what to do about people thought it was OK now believe it has gone too far. Amnesty, forgiveness, reconciliation? At this point they are useless words. They may never gave meaning for me again.

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